Your girl’s got it all – the brains, the beauty, and a willingness to spend the rest of her life with you and you’ve decided that you’re ready to propose. It is inevitable that you’ll be excited and anxious for that final moment. After all, it’s a moment that you both will remember for the rest of your lives. When it comes to planning the perfect marriage proposal there are a few rules you should know about!

If you are planning a marriage or wedding proposal think it through very carefully because it is more than just a ring and roses trust me.

Make Sure You Pick The Right Place and Time: Make sure you choose a special venue and a good timing, think about whether or not she will want everyone staring at her when you pop that magical question, or would want a more private and secretive proposal. Most women like that precious moment experienced with the closest people at heart in their lives around so that memories should be created by pictures and videos taken by the witnesses but other women prefer a more quiet and special proposal at a very convenient place with a few passers by strangers so take some good time with your partner and know them very well with they truly like or dislike.

As I have told you where to make that long awaited for proposal, I thought I should also share some rules every man should follow while planning the perfect marriage proposal ever:


If you want to go all out and give your loved one the surprise of her life, then get her that ring she has been dreaming of and you have discussed about in the beginning of your affair! No matter how un-materialistic she is, she will definitely appreciate how much you spent on that dazzling ring. Add some icing to that splendid proposal either by booking her favourite personality or musician to be around and grace your tiny event with bliss,trust me she will never forget that day for the rest of her life.

Never Be Empty-Handed After Popping The Question

Please dear gentlemen and I repeat please never ever ask a woman out for a hand in marriage when the ring is unavailable! For it will only prove to her that you are not serious about it. Your declaration of love and request for a lifetime commitment should be more important than whether or not you’re bearing jewelry, but you have to understand that to many, an engagement won’t seem legit unless she’s got an engagement ring to show for it to her family and friends. Women have different tastes when it comes to acquiring material things, so for your show not to be a disgrace know her taste or style and even find out from her even a year or months before you attempt to buy the ring so that you can be very sure about what style of rings she strongly desires and might treasure.

Quit Procrastinating

If you’re like many guys, once you’ve made the decision to propose to her, you want to get it over with as soon as possible. Once there’s a ring burning a hole in your pocket, you may feel like you won’t be able to breathe easy until it’s off of you and securely on her fourth precious pretty finger. But don’t let your nerves make you nervous at all because those four little words before the moment’s right and remember that she’s going to be telling your marriage proposal story for the rest of your lives so cheer up and be super courageous, and you want the tale to sound more epic romance than situation comedy in reality. If you feel outings are so not your thing well then don’t feel insecure and down because I know of a friend who asked her fiancé for a marriage the first thing in the morning in bed after sharing a night at her apartment. Just know that once you go for it there is no turning back.

Asking Permission from Her Guardians

The most awkward and most important conversations you’ll have in your life is either an interview of your first ever job or the one you’ll have with your girlfriend’s parents especially her father! Prepare for the conversation and what you are planning to say to him and kindly make sure to be very impressive by any means necessary to get his blessing before actually proposing to her respectively.

Don’t Go Around Blabbing About the Plan

You really need to treat this mastermind master plan as confidential as possible. Getting loose-lipped and telling friends or family members about your intention to propose to her is a very big no-no. You might think that the people you confide in would never spill the beans, but information this juicy will probably make the rounds anywhere. If too many people know about your proposal plans, it’s more than possible that your fiancé will catch wind of them too trust me. And even if nobody spoils the surprise, she’ll be unhappy if she later learns that lots of your friends (or hers) knew about the engagement before she did you see… so in your period of preparation please be secretive enough not to inform anyone.

Prepare Your Words Accurately

Last but not least — now that you have got everything under control and ready to hit the nail on the head, don’t forget to prepare what you’re going to say to the love of your life looking straight into her eyes, you don’t want to be down on one knee, holding a ring, with nothing to say honestly who does that!

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